Falling in love is easy, but staying in love is not. Cause it takes 2 hand to clap.

A friend whatsapp me last night at 2am, saying that she can't get to sleep. Bf was out again, promised to get home by 12plus, but wasn't home yet, so her mind went crazy again, thinking where's her bf, what is he doing, how come never pick up her calls. She told me that she know that her bf wasn't up to any bad stuff, but due to previous relationship which scarred her badly, she just can't stop having bad thoughts whenever she's left home alone with bf out.

Suddenly it crossed my mind that this happen to me too back then. I was hurt badly and became very insecure, and because of that, my life was all totally messed up. Till 1 night, GJ spoke to me, he told me that when he was out with me 1day, he saw the naive innocent side of me, he believed that this was the real me, and he's willing to go through every bad patch with me, and slowly fine tune me back, my heart sank, I was touched, and on the very night of 1st Oct 2010, I accepted him.

After being together for 2months, we decided to get marry, and this shocked everyone, thinking that I must be pregnant. I just feel that he was the right one, and trusted my feeling, and so decided.

I had the insecurity in me too, though he was a Mr Nice, even he's out, will be all guys, playing pool, drinking, supper and home early. I kept it and ignored it, and slowly it snowballed, and 1 fine day, we quarrelled, ignored each other for days before he finally realised that there was a serious problem. What makes me glad is that we both accept the problem's existence, came to an understanding, and willing to solve the issue together.

I guess a relationship really takes a lot of time and effort, and both hands to make it happen. I hoped that my friend's bf do see this problem, and will be willing to put in some effort to help her too..

Falling in love is easy, but staying in love is not. Cause it takes 2 hand to clap.

A friend whatsapp me last night at 2am, saying that she can't get to sleep. Bf was out again, promised to get home by 12plus, but wasn't home yet, so her mind went crazy again, thinking where's her bf, what is he doing, how come never pick up her calls. She told me that she know that her bf wasn't up to any bad stuff, but due to previous relationship which scarred her badly, she just can't stop having bad thoughts whenever she's left home alone with bf out.

Suddenly it crossed my mind that this happen to me too back then. I was hurt badly and became very insecure, and because of that, my life was all totally messed up. Till 1 night, GJ spoke to me, he told me that when he was out with me 1day, he saw the naive innocent side of me, he believed that this was the real me, and he's willing to go through every bad patch with me, and slowly fine tune me back, my heart sank, I was touched, and on the very night of 1st Oct 2010, I accepted him.

After being together for 2months, we decided to get marry, and this shocked everyone, thinking that I must be pregnant. I just feel that he was the right one, and trusted my feeling, and so decided.

I had the insecurity in me too, though he was a Mr Nice, even he's out, will be all guys, playing pool, drinking, supper and home early. I kept it and ignored it, and slowly it snowballed, and 1 fine day, we quarrelled, ignored each other for days before he finally realised that there was a serious problem. What makes me glad is that we both accept the problem's existence, came to an understanding, and willing to solve the issue together.

I guess a relationship really takes a lot of time and effort, and both hands to make it happen. I hoped that my friend's bf do see this problem, and will be willing to put in some effort to help her too..