Was talking to Sharon about what happened on Sunday where our parents sat over the food tasting dinner and discuss about the 过大礼, and I suddenly got upset, cause reminded mom many times whatever gifts that in-laws will be sending over, must be in even digits, but end up she asked in odd digits again, this wasnt about superstitions but every little thing has a meaning behind it. Even digits reason being all couple come in pairs, which is an even digit, a whole perfect suckling pig because it represents that hubby is pleased with the bride received, but ended up no suckling pig.

As I talked, I remembered GJ did not pass me his dad's name in chinese and had to chase him for it, and I became more upset, and he started pointing fingers at me again for not helping. I was like, why it seems like this whole wedding, I'm the one who has to research, plan, DIY some stuff, and yet I also must carry out actions, it was like this is my wedding, and not our wedding. Ended up crying to Sharon, and she was like consoling me. Was pretty touched by her concern, and made me think back what it was like back then like 6yrs ago. We were send to Japan to work, and she would be my roomie, and her thought of rooming with me really irks her, because back in Kriston, we never did talk to each other much. After which, Meng also roomed with us, which became worse, as they were those who were very blunt to a sense it was very sarcastic. But from fighting, to bitching about each other, to bitch about others every other night, lying down next to each other, till we laughed every other night, we ended up being good friends, and now we meet up occasionally, bitch about anything, and of cause be there for each other. Yes I'm still upset, but 105ers, love you guys to the max.

Was talking to Sharon about what happened on Sunday where our parents sat over the food tasting dinner and discuss about the 过大礼, and I suddenly got upset, cause reminded mom many times whatever gifts that in-laws will be sending over, must be in even digits, but end up she asked in odd digits again, this wasnt about superstitions but every little thing has a meaning behind it. Even digits reason being all couple come in pairs, which is an even digit, a whole perfect suckling pig because it represents that hubby is pleased with the bride received, but ended up no suckling pig.

As I talked, I remembered GJ did not pass me his dad's name in chinese and had to chase him for it, and I became more upset, and he started pointing fingers at me again for not helping. I was like, why it seems like this whole wedding, I'm the one who has to research, plan, DIY some stuff, and yet I also must carry out actions, it was like this is my wedding, and not our wedding. Ended up crying to Sharon, and she was like consoling me. Was pretty touched by her concern, and made me think back what it was like back then like 6yrs ago. We were send to Japan to work, and she would be my roomie, and her thought of rooming with me really irks her, because back in Kriston, we never did talk to each other much. After which, Meng also roomed with us, which became worse, as they were those who were very blunt to a sense it was very sarcastic. But from fighting, to bitching about each other, to bitch about others every other night, lying down next to each other, till we laughed every other night, we ended up being good friends, and now we meet up occasionally, bitch about anything, and of cause be there for each other. Yes I'm still upset, but 105ers, love you guys to the max.